Our members value The Baby Bathwater Institute because we curate a quality community that allows members to experience GOOD TIMES.
And in order to have good times personally and professionally, we need to ensure certain standards of behavior are adhered to…
If not, we end up experiencing BAD TIMES.
That said, we have created some fundamental rules and guidelines that are intended to create more business, wealth, and good times together, while also providing more safety and inclusiveness.
Doing Business With Members
We’re here to celebrate what we do and get better at doing it. And we don’t necessarily need to do business with each other in any way, shape, or form for that to happen.
It’s about camaraderie, shared knowledge, moral support, and of course, Good Times!
When we talk about a Return on Investment, that’s our definition.
Having said that, people do find kindred spirits here. It comes as a very natural part of the territory. Just don’t get swept away.
That service provider might not have the perfect skill set. That Brand might not be the perfect fit. So please, do yourself and the group a favor…
Perform the same due diligence you would surrounding any service provider, investment opportunity or fee-for-service engagement.
Just remember, we vet our members based on them being good people with knowledge to share. That’s it.
Below are a few quick descriptions of the three main sections, along with links that’ll take you to each one.
Guidelines: These are strong recommendations for how to conduct yourself within the group. If an issue arises between members, we will be checking to see if a member followed the guidelines.
Rules: These are non-negotiable. If a rule has been clearly broken, there will be consequences.
Enforcement: What happens when a Rule is broken, or guidelines have been grossly ignored.
Members making money together, creating businesses together, and using each other’s services is one of the highlights of this group. Some serious wealth creation and business magic has been created, and we want this to continue.
The guidelines below are intended to increase the likelihood of members creating wealth and doing business together, with minimal bathwater.
To be clear, these are guidelines, and not rules. However, if issues arise, we will be referring to these guidelines when it comes to making a decision about resolution.
GUIDELINE #1: GET OUR ADVICE BEFORE DOING BUSINESS WITH ANOTHER MEMBER:
This could include: providing services, hiring for services, taking investment, investing, or creating a new company with another member.
Because of our knowledge of each member and our deep expertise in Resentment Inoculation™, we will be able to help you think about how to structure things so everyone remains friends, even if things don’t work out.
GUIDELINE #2: FOLLOW THESE CHECKLISTS BASED ON YOUR ROLE
Service Provider Checklist:
If you are a “Service Provider” (Meaning you have a company that can provide services to a Baby Bathwater member), here is a checklist we recommend following when considering providing your services to another member:
Internal Check:
Provide a detailed scope of work:
While providing your service:
If you’re a service provider working with a Baby Bathwater Member: Click here for a downloadable checklist of guidelines to follow
Investment Request Checklist:
If you have a project where you are seeking investment, here is a checklist we recommend following before seeking an investment from another member:
Internal Check:
If Investment Occurs:
If you have a project where you are seeking investment from a Baby Bathwater Member: Click here for a downloadable checklist of guidelines to follow
Client or Investor Checklist:
If you plan on hiring a member or investing in a member’s project, here is a checklist we recommend following before hiring or investing:
If you plan on hiring a member or investing in a member’s project: Click here for a downloadable checklist of guidelines to follow
Partnership Checklist:
If you are thinking about creating a business partnership with another member, here is a checklist we recommend following before making such a GIANT decision:
If you are thinking about creating a business partnership with another member: Click here for a downloadable checklist of guidelines to follow
GUIDELINE #3: MAINTAIN CONFIDENTIALITY
This is recommended behavior at live events, online, and overall when you are with other members.
Please don’t share potentially embarrassing stories about members or attendees. What you think is funny or harmless might not be considered so funny or harmless by the party involved.
Please don’t post private event information (even including who is there) on social media. Some folks aren’t into people knowing where they are at any given time.
GUIDELINE #4: ADHERE TO BOUNDARIES
Everyone has different good times habits, please abstain from judging or pressuring any member or event attendee to do something they are uncomfortable with.
Do not, “come on” to someone at the event or attempt to, “hit on anyone”. Make sure that any attraction is natural AND mutual. This is not a place to practice your “pick -up” skills.
Please refrain from sexual innuendo, even if you think you are just being funny.
Baby Bathwater is politically and spiritually agnostic, please don’t use the group as a platform for your political or spiritual views. Expressing yourself is encouraged, but preaching or creating arguments around these subjects is out of bounds.
On this note, no member or event attendee is to be discriminated against based on their private political or spiritual leanings.
RULE #1: NO INTIMIDATION AND DISCRIMINATION:
Physically, verbally, or written bullying or intimidating any member, staff, or event attendee for any reason will not be tolerated.
No publicly bad mouthing a Baby Bathwater Member or event attendee.
No bad mouthing a member to one of their employees or contractors.
Discrimination of members of any race, sexual orientation, or gender will not be tolerated. This includes jokes and actions where the defense is “I was just being funny?” – This defense will not be considered legitimate.
RULE #2: NO SOLICITING
These behaviors violate the No Soliciting Rule:
These behaviors outlined below do NOT violate the No Soliciting Rule:
RULE #3: MAINTAIN CONFIDENTIALITY AND RESPECT
Consider all information learned in Baby Bathwater about another member or an attendee PRIVATE, unless otherwise expressed. This includes, but is not limited to:
In addition…
No poaching of any member or event attendee’s employees.
No taking photos and videos of members or attendees at BBW events or functions without CLEARLY expressed consent.
If you believe a member has violated these guidelines or broken any rules, please email us at: [email protected]. If you feel this is too sensitive, you can contact Michael, Hollis, or Cynthia directly. Please do NOT start rumors in the group before contacting us. We promise to be discreet.
We will contact you directly and go over the nature of the complaint and get all the details and context.
Depending on whether we have your permission or not, we will contact the member in question to get their side of the story. If it is too sensitive, we will honor your request to keep your issue anonymous, however, it will be difficult to take action if we can’t get the other side of the story.
After we review, we will take the appropriate action, see below.
GUIDELINES:
When situations arise as a result of a member failing to observe BBW’s guidelines, the goal is first an amicable resolution and not punishment. However, if a member grossly violates the guidelines or is unwilling to address the situation amicably, we would begin to look at the situation as if a rule had been violated.
Possible Resolutions:
RULES:
The Rules set out in the Code of Conduct are non-negotiable and (if clearly broken) will lead to enforcement:
Step 1: BBW notifies the offending party of the allegation that a RULE has been violated and requests a statement
Step 2: BBW contacts the BBW Board of Advisors to form a 3 person Ethics Committee
Step 3: The Ethics Committee reviews the initial information provided
Step 4: The Ethics Committee conducts interviews with each party involved in the alleged violation
Step 5: The Ethics Committee assesses the situation and submits their conclusion and recommended resolution to BBW
Step 6: BBW notifies involved parties of the outcome. *If the resolution is that a member will be removed from the group, the group at large will be notified of their expulsion.
Possible Resolutions:
If you are in this group we trust you as a capable, rational adult. Know that nothing in this world is black and white, risks are ever-present, and there is always going to be baby and bathwater… Please perform your due diligence with any service providers, investments, or opportunities within The Baby Bathwater Institute, and take responsibility for your actions and decisions.
We’re here to support you. If you ever have any questions or need additional clarification on anything you can always reach out to [email protected] and our team will be happy to help.
Now go forth, take risks, enjoy life, and prosper!